Divorce: 3 Things You Can Do to Feel More in Control

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Divorce undoubtedly brings about significant stress, possibly ranking as the most stressful event in one’s life. Entrusting strangers with intimate details of your life and relying on their judgment feels unsettling and largely beyond your control. Nevertheless, there are steps you can take to navigate the process more smoothly for yourself and assist your attorney. Here are three actions that can empower you and support your attorney in presenting your case effectively to a discerning court.

Be Completely Honest About the Divorce

Expressing our side of the story can be challenging without bias. Attorneys acknowledge this challenge, but surprising your attorney in court with contradictory information and supporting evidence can be detrimental. Regardless of whether the facts are favorable or unfavorable, your attorney needs accurate information to build a solid case. Concealing or distorting facts only complicates matters and increases legal costs.

Follow Court Orders, Regardless

Embrace the judge’s orders, even if they seem disagreeable. Whether temporary or permanent, the court’s decisions become your new norm until further changes are made. Even if your spouse is not complying with the orders, it is crucial to adhere to them. Communicate any violations to your attorney, who can address these issues with the court. Maintaining control over your actions and emotions during this challenging time preserves some control over your case.

Approach Your Spouse Professionally 

Acknowledge that your marriage has transformed into a legal agreement with provisions for rights, responsibilities, and expected conduct. Treating your spouse with the respect you would afford a business associate can foster a more amicable divorce. Minimize emotional involvement in communications, focusing on addressing essential issues. This approach helps both parties stick to pertinent matters and avoid unnecessary emotional turmoil.

The Slaughter Law Firm understands the complexities of a this process and is ready to provide legal advice and representation. If you require assistance, please contact our law office to schedule a consultation.